Most times, when people don’t get to successfully achieve something, it’s most likely that their ego gets in their way. They, including myself get all wrapped up imagining all the negative scenarios. But we have to think, “What’s the best that can happen?” We have to be more optimistic and yes, this is another attribute that cynical people despise. They say… “well, I’m more of a realist” and I say… You’re not really a realist, you’re a pessimist. You are just soaked up and absorbed in so much negativity that it now became your thought of reality. But truthfully, and fortunately, there are equally plenty of great things happening right now in this world just as there is the bad.
The more we acknowledge that we can survive in this crazy world, the better we will be able to handle our fears. So be an optimist, recognize its not about completely vanishing the fears but more so being able to manage. accepting it, then moving forward regardless. The honest truth, every person on this earth is scared. Scared of anything and you’re not alone. More times than often, what we are risking the most, is our own ego. And if you can let your ego down a little notch, you stand to achieve a whole lot more than what your ego was trying to protect you from.
Learn to step out of yourself in small increments day by day so that when the time comes, when something big calls out to present itself to you, you’ll be more than prepared to say HELL YES! Everyone says, I want a million dollars but you do that by preparing yourself & setting yourself in little increments day by day and working yourself up to it.
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